So this week I've been wondering a lot about how I can help people who are suffering. This is an overwhelming question that is often on my mind. What can I do? Where do I start? How can I help? How can I give them comfort?
I do believe these thoughts were spurred first by the catastrophic cyclone in Mayanmar, second the execrable earthquake in China, and third the themes in the book I am reading (and enjoying, Confessions of an Ugly Stepsister).
I want to preface my thoughts here by saying that, geez, I hope this doesn't turn out to be a downer, and second, please know that I am in no way lauding myself.

I think my eyes and world were pried open at an early age when I began to desire world travels. I wanted to see and experience what was out there. With my first experience in Ecuador the bug bit and I've never been able to get over it since.
But while in Ecuador, I saw things I'd never seen before- hundreds of orphaned children, other children sleeping on pavement, and extreme poverty almost everywhere. In Israel and Spain once again I found myself working in orphanages, surrounded by these beautiful, unfortunate children. As I've rode my bike through streets of Egypt, walked through refugee camps in the West Bank, discovered ancient ruins in Cambodia, and lived in less than fortunate areas in America, I have also discovered more poverty, more suffering children, and more help is desperately needed.
Here are some people I will never forget:
But while in Ecuador, I saw things I'd never seen before- hundreds of orphaned children, other children sleeping on pavement, and extreme poverty almost everywhere. In Israel and Spain once again I found myself working in orphanages, surrounded by these beautiful, unfortunate children. As I've rode my bike through streets of Egypt, walked through refugee camps in the West Bank, discovered ancient ruins in Cambodia, and lived in less than fortunate areas in America, I have also discovered more poverty, more suffering children, and more help is desperately needed.
Here are some people I will never forget:


egyptian child laborers, weaving carpets

egyptian woman, rummaging trash


tired, hungry, sick. street children of myanmar. we gave our soda to the older boy, he took one sip and passed it around to all the nearby children until it was empty. no mom in sight


aren't they beautiful. boy thailand. girl cambodia


These images and many more are etched in my mind. And I think of them, these pictures, these people I've come across, and wish I could do more!
Did you know 29,000 people die every day from starvation? Did you know it only takes $30 to feed a child in Africa for a month? As I read the statistics on AIDS, Malaria, hunger, thirst and poverty they are completely staggering. And this is why I so often find myself overwhelmed and asking Where can I start? What can I do?
Well, the more I think about it, the more I think, do. Do whatever you can, wherever you can. Just do something! And hey, do as much as you can. Whether it be to send money or goods to Africa, donate money to church programs and other organizations, make a friend dinner, babysit someones kids, invite the neighbors to FHE, door bell ditch goodies or Christmas presents or whatever, say hello to someone at church that you haven't before, write a nice letter, thank your spouse, hug your child, make a thoughtful phone call, organize a food drive, visit a children's hospital, serve at a soup kitchen, give someone a ride, give a fast offering that hurts, give someone the benefit of the doubt, volunteer in your community, tutor/mentor a child (that's not yours), intentionally buy yourself a cheaper shirt so you can donate the money you may have spent, run in a 5k fundraiser, donate blood, visit a widow... man, the list is endless. Just do something, do many things, as often as possible. And though right now I may not be able to fly to China to clean up the rummage, or donate thousands of dollars to feed hungry children, or build Juana a safe and clean house, I know that there is a season for all things. And so I will do what I can now, with what I have now. I will. And I will certainly pray for the rest.
Did you know 29,000 people die every day from starvation? Did you know it only takes $30 to feed a child in Africa for a month? As I read the statistics on AIDS, Malaria, hunger, thirst and poverty they are completely staggering. And this is why I so often find myself overwhelmed and asking Where can I start? What can I do?
Well, the more I think about it, the more I think, do. Do whatever you can, wherever you can. Just do something! And hey, do as much as you can. Whether it be to send money or goods to Africa, donate money to church programs and other organizations, make a friend dinner, babysit someones kids, invite the neighbors to FHE, door bell ditch goodies or Christmas presents or whatever, say hello to someone at church that you haven't before, write a nice letter, thank your spouse, hug your child, make a thoughtful phone call, organize a food drive, visit a children's hospital, serve at a soup kitchen, give someone a ride, give a fast offering that hurts, give someone the benefit of the doubt, volunteer in your community, tutor/mentor a child (that's not yours), intentionally buy yourself a cheaper shirt so you can donate the money you may have spent, run in a 5k fundraiser, donate blood, visit a widow... man, the list is endless. Just do something, do many things, as often as possible. And though right now I may not be able to fly to China to clean up the rummage, or donate thousands of dollars to feed hungry children, or build Juana a safe and clean house, I know that there is a season for all things. And so I will do what I can now, with what I have now. I will. And I will certainly pray for the rest.
8 comments:
Oh I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE that you put a picture of Djella on here! She was so amazing. Remember we'd sneak juice to her? I love her and I'm glad I got to work with you and visit her. I wonder what ever happened with her? Thanks for this post...I love it. And you!!
April, I feel really vain about the picture of all my shoes after I read this post. Shoot.
Did you know that Cami's husband started a non-profit organization for orphans in Ukraine after his mission? He works with orphanages now and his NPO is called "Project Reach Out"
They are always looking for volunteers and go once or twice a year. I guess it is hard with a bunch of your own little kiddos to take care of though.
Hey April! I found your blog from the Trapnell's page and I was excited to see what you guys have been up to. Thanks so much for sharing your pictures and experiences from your visits to other countries. I was feeling sorry for myself b/c I have 2 sick and extra whiny (sp?) children and now things don't seem SO bad! I'll try to maintain this perspective when they wake up from their naps! Joe's studying for the FL boards right now, doesn't that sound so much fun?
What an awesome post April! I'm inspired! I get overwhelmed sometimes and think the same thing you did "What can I do?" But like you pointed out, there's lot's of little things I can do like the examples you gave. And I certainly need to be a little more grateful for what I have!
Thanks for your insight and perspective!
April! I am so glad to see that you started a blog, it's so fun to see your little family. I loved all your pictures and stories from around the world. I too often wonder what I can do to help, but I know one person can make a difference. While my parents were living in Ghana my mom helped some women start a business that now supports 4 families! There are lots of great ways we can help, and I agree it is vital to teach our children that they are part of a global community.
Those pictures are heartbreaking. I never saw any of them-- it's cool to see them here. And nice use of the word execrable.
Well, I wish you Fergusons would stop being so stuck up and move out here to become Utah Mormons like everyone else. You know it's inevitable, because the Yearning For Vinton compound that's scheduled for construction in Desolation Utah/Colorado will draw you in when it's constructed whether you like it or not; It's just a matter of time, Micasa. It's just a matter of time.
In the interim, I'm sad you bailed on vintonville, but this is a good and entertaining site nonetheless.
Well, I think you're keen. Love you.
Your brother.
Oh how I miss you. You are always someone that is going out of your way to help others and I have been inspired by it. It does not surprise me that you are thinking of ways to do more. I guess we can always do more than we currently are, but wow you sure do a great deal and are so thoughful. I really miss you guys and agree with Dan that you should give in and move out this way.
What a great post and motivation for the day. It is so true what you said about just DO. I loved your ideas too.
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